I have a Superpowers :)

My dad passed away when I was 16 years old. I blamed myself for that. I still do. It is hard to forget and forgive what I did. I'm ashamed and afraid to speak about it. But I believe that with my "superpower" I've managed to lose my dad. Just to be clear he passed away of a heart attack. But still, I blame myself. 

Why I'm sharing this? Just to give you an idea of how much I believe in everything I'm sharing on our Instagram page and here. Our mind is a powerful tool. It can bring us amazing things, beautiful things. Everything we wanted. But it can also bring all negative, all our fears to come true. 

You are what you think. And of course, there is a catch. It is much easier to think negative. We are, as humans created like that. It takes time and practice to bring more positive thoughts into your mind.  

Recently I've spent some time thinking about some negative experiences I had in the past and what was on my mind on that day and days before. I've concluded that most of those situations were almost identical to all the negative scenarios that I had in my mind. If you give me a problem I will deliver 16 pages of how will that problem affect me in that moment and the future. How it will make me feel. How will I react to it? What will I allow people to see of me? EVERYTHING. And I will think about that problem until I find a solution for it. Over and over again. And then the worst part is... I would be proud because I found a solution for something that didn't even occur yet.  

Now, as I've said, You are what you think. And if you think over and over about something negative, and try to find a solution for it, all you are doing is sending a message to the Universe that you are ready to deal with that problem. And then, look who is knocking on your door. Universe delivering what you are asking for. 

That is a "Superpower"

I have it. You have it. And it is a hard job to control it. You might even hate it, just like I did in the past. Until I've learned how to control it. How to use the best of it. Negative thoughts do not go away. And they shouldn't. Some of them are for our safety. We need them to recognise danger.

However, our happy, positive thoughts deserve our attention. We need to learn how to use those thoughts to get what we want. 

Now the important part,  I am capable of delivering 16 pages for one problem in an extremely short period. However, if I need to do the same for something nice that I wish to happen... It will take me a long time, and probably somewhere along the way, I will find a problem that needs a solution, and if I'm not careful I will get off the track of thinking positively to be fully focused on the negative. And that is a confusing message sent to the Universe. 

It's like saying: "I wish for this nice thing to happen but with small problems along the way because I can deal with them."

This is where all your training to think positively, to believe in yourself comes in handy :) This is where I use affirmations to focus and then questions to stop negative thoughts from coming so strong. You need something to use as a shield. 

Once I've managed to learn that everything has changed, I'm much happier, I know that my hard work and my beliefs will bring me what I need and deserve. 

We all deserve happiness. Hope you know that. 

Lots of love,

Marija

I am not an expert or professional. All of this is my opinion and experience. And if you are dealing with anxiety, depression or any other problems please try to seek help and professional advice.